Personal Life – Alexandra Snow https://alexandrasnow.com Kink. Power. Strategy. Advocacy Sun, 02 Apr 2023 04:37:15 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 182310864 Wicked Eden Grand Opening – June 3rd 2023 https://alexandrasnow.com/wicked-eden-grand-opening-june-3rd-2023/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=wicked-eden-grand-opening-june-3rd-2023 Sun, 02 Apr 2023 04:37:15 +0000 https://alexandrasnow.com/?p=8947 [vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space][fwp_borano_title title=”Wicked Eden’s Grand Opening Gala” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_empty_space][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_single_image image=”8951″ img_size=”full” alignment=”center” style=”vc_box_rounded”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]My dearest fans,

I’m absolutely thrilled to (finally!) announce the grand opening of Wicked Eden, and I’d like to personally invite each and every one of you to come celebrate with me! This event is going to be unlike any other – with over 35 celebrity Dommes (and counting) in attendance and attendees flying in from all over the world, it’s shaping up to be an unforgettable experience.

As you know, the new Wicked Eden has my passion project – a space where alternative lifestyle communities can come together to explore their desires in a safe and inclusive environment. The road to this grand opening has been long and arduous, but it’s all been worth it. With a million dollars invested into the space, we’ve transformed it into a luxurious 6,000 square foot oasis that I can’t wait for you to see. We are currently in the home stretch for construction and will hopefully be moving into our new space at the end of April.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row content_placement=”middle” overlay=”0″ css=”.vc_custom_1680410155692{margin-top: 40px !important;margin-bottom: 40px !important;background-color: #5e5e5e !important;}”][vc_column width=”1/6″][vc_empty_space][/vc_column][vc_column width=”2/3″ css=”.vc_custom_1680410201309{padding-top: 25px !important;padding-bottom: 25px !important;}”][vc_column_text]

Press Releases:

Dominatrix Alexandra Snow Unveils BDSM Event Space

Autonomy Project to Open New Venue Wicked Eden

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With the new direction of Wicked Eden, you must be a member of the Autonomy Project to purchase tickets– and to schedule sessions with me after June 3rd. You can read more about the Autonomy Project and becoming a member here.

So come join me for an evening of opulence, decadence, and exploration. I promise you won’t regret it. Get your tickets now and let’s make this grand opening one for the books.[/vc_column_text][ucaddon_uc_slide_down_button text=”BUY YOUR TICKETS” link=”http://www.awickedevent.com” text_hover_color=”#00faff” uc_init_settings=”” uc_fonts_data=”JTdCJTdE”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_single_image image=”8952″ img_size=”large” add_caption=”yes” alignment=”center” style=”vc_box_rounded” css=”.vc_custom_1680408945121{border-radius: 1px !important;}”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][/vc_column][/vc_row]

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Exciting Changes with Wicked Eden & The Autonomy Project https://alexandrasnow.com/excitingchanges/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=excitingchanges Wed, 01 Mar 2023 02:02:00 +0000 https://alexandrasnow.com/?p=8876 [vc_row][vc_column][vc_empty_space][fwp_borano_title title=”New & Exciting Updates!” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_empty_space][vc_column_text]Dear beloved pets and fans.

I wanted to take a moment to share some updates with you all about what’s been going on behind the scenes at Wicked Eden. As many of you know, I’ve been incredibly busy lately with a variety of new projects and exciting changes happening, from the massive construction project at the new building to my focus on building my fanclubs to even greater heights. I recently reopened my OnlyFans (YouWillWorship.Me) to allow those who prefer that site to keep in touch, and I have had record numbers on my primary fanclub on LoyalFans (Loyal2Her.com)

First and foremost, with the popularity of my documentary and the mad scramble before I raise my rates in the coming months, I am fully booked for in-person sessions through May 1st. You can keep an eye on my schedule for the rare cancellation or reschedule, otherwise you’ll have to wait to visit me in the new building in May when my books reopen.

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Founding the Autonomy Project has been an enormous undertaking, and I couldn’t be more proud of what we’ve accomplished. From the documentary to the collective to my retreats for sex workers, I’ve learned much about creating meaningful change in our community. With the Autonomy Project as our guiding force, we will take our work to new heights and create a stronger community that bridges the gaps between the kink, queer, and sex-positive worlds.

With the launch of the Autonomy Project, my work has taken on a new direction, one that is focused on empowering creators and communities. I nearly cried upon receiving our 501(c)3 notice from the IRS last week, but the universe is giving me all the signs that this is the right direction to move in. It may be a great deal of work, but this work is a true labor of love. Don’t worry, I’ll still be doing sessions and making content, but I’ll be focusing on the non-profit as my heart mission.[/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space][vc_empty_space][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/2″][fwp_borano_title title=”Changes in Membership at Wicked Eden” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_column_text]

What does this mean for you?

If you were a member of Wicked Eden in the past, as of May 1st, your membership will become obsolete. Yes, I know, but it’s a necessary change as we switch to this non-profit model. In order to book appointments with me, you will need to purchase a membership to the Autonomy Project.

Memberships come in several varieties: three tiers of yearly membership, and a temporary membership. The yearly memberships also grand you the ability to purchase event tickets, attend classes, participate in the online community, and visit me as many times as you like. The temporary membership is only good for 48 hours and is good for one event or session.

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We are now in the final stages of construction, but there’s still several long months of headache before we’ll be open. If any of you have ever remodeled a house, imagine that process but times x100! This project is costing me a small fortune and we are desperately reaching the stage where donations will be the only thing that get across the finish line. With our new 501(c)3 status, your donations are now tax deductible!

Donors who contribute $500 or more will receive a sneak peak invite to our soft open VIP party, as well as the option to be included on our Hall of Fame wall for all time. You can donate using one of the links below!

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We welcome items purchased from our Amazon Wishlist as well as monetary donations directly to the space here.

If altruism isn’t your kink, then know that I’ll certainly have more time to be present with your fantasies once this phase is complete. So the more you help me, the faster I can get back to giving you life-changing experiences and making more jaw-dropping femdom content. Or I’ll just lock you all up in chastity and hold your keys for ransom.. whatever gets the job done.

You can also send tributes directly to me to help cover the time and income lost from managing this project, which will most certainly make me a very happy Goddess. Nothing turns me on quite like selflessness from my pets.

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You can also donate in the name of your favorite Domme or creator and see them enshrined here as well.

You can donate using any of the links above, then send me an email to alex@alexandrasnow.com to let me know which name you donated with, how you’d like your name formatted, and provide the photos for printing.

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You can also keep an eye on my Twitter for additional updates and announcements.

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A Wicked Eden Documentary Premiere https://alexandrasnow.com/a-wicked-eden-documentary-premiere/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=a-wicked-eden-documentary-premiere Sat, 03 Dec 2022 00:22:37 +0000 https://alexandrasnow.com/?p=8402 [vc_row][vc_column][vc_single_image image=”8754″ img_size=”full” alignment=”center”][vc_empty_space][vc_column_text]

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The day we’ve all been waiting for has arrived! https://alexandrasnow.com/the-day-weve-all-been-waiting-for-has-arrived/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=the-day-weve-all-been-waiting-for-has-arrived Thu, 30 Jun 2022 21:51:44 +0000 https://alexandrasnow.com/?p=8610 [vc_row][vc_column][fwp_borano_title title=”A MILESTONE MOMENT” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_column_text]

For as long as I’ve been a pro, my dream has been to own my studio building and never again be at the mercy of a landlord. However, buying commercial space is incredibly difficult for normal business owners, virtually impossible for a queer woman in the adult industry. I’ve had this dream shot down more times than I can count, but I never gave up. I rebuilt my business from scratch 7 years ago and worked so hard to make it look good on paper, to recover my credit and respectability from my divorce, and to build the business savings (which meant paying myself a LOT less).

In January, I decided to try again after finding an ideal building. This started the most grueling, brutal process of a commercial loan.. and let me tell you, it’s impressively hard.

For the last 4 months, I’ve spent 20+ hours a week PLUS my actual job (even while traveling to Greece and with COVID) playing this never-ending game of proving that I deserve this loan.


Mountains of paperwork.
Excruciating financials.
Non-stop problem solving.
Panic inducing emails.
Hundreds of hours on the phone with the IRS, the state, accountants, the lender.
More paperwork, more proof, more agreements.
Finding a contractor, an architect, and nailing down a construction budget.
Battling the misogynistic seller’s agent who tried to cancel the deal constantly because he had another buyer lined up offering more if my deal fell through.

 

My team did their best to pick up the slack and keep things running while I did battle on this every day, for which I would never have been able to do this without them.

[/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=”8622″ img_size=”large” add_caption=”yes” alignment=”center” style=”vc_box_rounded” css=”.vc_custom_1656625516013{border-radius: 1px !important;}”][fwp_borano_title title=”NOW SHE’S ALL MINE” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_column_text]It felt very tenuous for months, I felt like I couldn’t even breathe a word of it lest there be a risk to the entire deal falling through.

 

But somehow, fortune and my hard work paid off. She’s all mine.

 

I signed the papers on Monday and got the keys yesterday! I’m now the owner of a beautiful, freestanding brick building just south of downtown. It will be offices, commercial dungeon, event space, rental photo/video studio, and production space — 6000 SQ ft of possibilities.

We will be utilizing the space for both production studio and dungeon, along with Tabitha Jane as my resident Domme partner-in-crime.

[/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space][vc_single_image image=”8624″ img_size=”large” add_caption=”yes” alignment=”center” style=”vc_box_rounded” css=”.vc_custom_1656624833268{border-radius: 1px !important;}”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][fwp_borano_title title=”HOW YOU CAN HELP” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_column_text]Now the real work begins to transform this building into the new Wicked Eden, which will include a great deal of renovations. The loan I acquired allows for most of the structural work, walls, flooring, etc but none of the decor and furnishings.

I’ve started a Fundly (a better alternative to GoFundMe) for the remaining amount that we’ll need for this project. I’ve outlined the current priorities and items that we’re working towards, which include security fencing, appliances, hot water heater, and more.

I’ve been fortunate to have a kickass architect who understands my vision and the designs we have cooked up are amazing. Suspension system built into polished beams, glossy medical room, immersive bondage theatre, sensual library, sparkling makeover room, and so much more.

She might not look like much now, but when we’re done.. it’s going to be the most beautiful playspace you’ve ever seen.[/vc_column_text][vc_btn title=”DONATE TO OUR DREAM” color=”success” size=”lg” align=”center” i_icon_fontawesome=”fas fa-hand-holding-usd” add_icon=”true” link=”url:https%3A%2F%2Ffundly.com%2Fthe-new-wicked-eden|target:_blank”][vc_empty_space][vc_media_grid grid_id=”vc_gid:1656623213165-528236e7-71aa-0″ include=”8619,8620,8618,8617,8615,8616,8613,8612,8614″][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][fwp_borano_title title=”FAQ” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_column_text]Where is it located?

The new building is still in Columbus, and is located just south of downtown. It has a large parking lot and will be fully security fenced.

 

What will it have?

The building will be split into two sides, one dedicated to kink and the other dedicated to video production. The dungeon side will feature 7 fully sound dampened, private playrooms that will be rentable to couples/moresomes and select professionals with two full bathrooms with full showers. It will also have overnight accommodations with bedroom and shower, a community space with full kitchen and classroom area for classes and educational events.

The entire space (6000 sq ft) will be utilized for larger events and play parties, as well as creative events featuring photography, music, and dance. We intend to rent our production space to industry creatives as well as utilize it for our own production projects.

 

When will construction be finished?

As with everything else post-pandemic, things are taking longer than usual and we don’t anticipate the construction to start until August. We hope to have everything finished and to move in fully by late fall, with our grand opening occurring sometime towards the end of the year.

 

Will you be documenting the process?

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Some people made bread during the pandemic, but I… https://alexandrasnow.com/some-people-made-bread/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=some-people-made-bread Wed, 17 Feb 2021 23:38:46 +0000 http://alexandrasnow.com/?p=6705 [vc_row][vc_column][fwp_borano_title title=”Fuck the sourdough, I had a real project.” link=”” tag=”h3″ title_pos=”text-center” absolute_center=”0″ separator=”1″ separator_pos=”separator” separator_m_bottom=”mb20″ title_color=”” extra_class=””][vc_column_text]Anyone who thinks that websites aren’t an epic metric fuckton of work has obviously never made a website.

I daresay most people who look at beautiful websites probably have no idea how much time and energy it requires to get them to a visually pleasing state. It’s insane. I’ve poured several hundred (thousand?) hours into this new site and my member’s site, GoddessSnow.com, and it seems like the list of things to do with them is never-ending. For those of you who remember, I was a web designer first and a dominatrix second, so I’ve always done my websites myself. You know, in addition to everything else because I’m a USDA Prime Grade A control freak.

However.. getting my blog back up and running was a very important step and I’m quite terrible at celebrating the small successes. So.. hooray, it lives! {cue fanfare}[/vc_column_text][vc_custom_heading text=”“Wow, I’m excited for you new blog! What’s next?“” font_container=”tag:p|font_size:25px|text_align:left|color:%2381acd1″ google_fonts=”font_family:Annie%20Use%20Your%20Telescope%3Aregular|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal” css=”.vc_custom_1613698662123{padding-top: 32px !important;padding-bottom: 32px !important;}”][vc_column_text]The next steps are the last stretch of design updates to my member’s site and accompanied direct clip store, which I’ve unfortunately been handcuffed with since my technical know-how only does not extend past basic programming. The CMS software that runs my members site is hella complicated and not just anyone can modify it. My previous programmer went AWOL at the start of the pandemic, and it was a misery finding someone who could take on this esoteric coding project. One of my dear friends came in as a pinch hitter and things are finally moving along. HOWEVER, we’re finally in the last stages and I’m hopeful we’ll roll out the latest changes in the next few weeks.

Reloading, transcoding, configuring, and testing thousands of videos and photos onto a member’s site was the work of three people over the last 2 years. All the content is now up and functioning correctly with a very devoted membership base, but yours truly is a design perfectionist and everything must be perfect. I know most of my fans don’t care how pretty the site is, you’re just here for my dazzling personality (ahem, massive tits) and the evil genius of my videos, but I CARE and that’s what’s important.[/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=”8147″ img_size=”550×309″ add_caption=”yes” alignment=”center” style=”vc_box_rounded” css=”.vc_custom_1613697352602{border-radius: 1px !important;}”][vc_custom_heading text=”“But Goddess, what happened to your old sites? Why did you have to rebuild them?“” font_container=”tag:p|font_size:25px|text_align:left|color:%2381acd1″ google_fonts=”font_family:Annie%20Use%20Your%20Telescope%3Aregular|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal” css=”.vc_custom_1613698613372{padding-top: 32px !important;padding-bottom: 32px !important;}”][vc_column_text]That’s a very good question, and much of that is tied up in a long story. The short answer is: divorces suck and I learned some very valuable lessons about life, business, and the dangers of not having full control over my work (and money) in the last few years. The most valuable lessons also tend to be the most painful, and I’ve been diligently putting the pieces of my business and dungeon back together ever since. This humpty-dumpty of a project has come a long way and I’m proud to say that this circumstance gave me a unique opportunity to evolve both personally and professionally.

The sites were only one part of this process, which is probably readily apparent if you’ve been following my work over the last decade. New photos, new branding, new fanclub, new content. Yeah, I really like new stuff. Not only did I put together this dynamite, all-female creative team to help produce my content to the level you see now, built all-star pro lineup to go with with my new dungeon, won some awards, and was even the subject of a documentary these last few years.. but more importantly, I learned a great deal about the person I wanted to be.

That is a topic for a longer post, of course, so I’ll avoid the tangent and file the “things I learned over the last 5 years” and the “evolution of a Dominatrix” for a future discussion.[/vc_column_text][vc_empty_space][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_single_image image=”8012″ img_size=”large” add_caption=”yes” alignment=”center” style=”vc_box_rounded” css=”.vc_custom_1613698828529{border-radius: 1px !important;}”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”1/2″][vc_custom_heading text=”“How have you dealt with the pandemic?“” font_container=”tag:p|font_size:25px|text_align:left|color:%2381acd1″ google_fonts=”font_family:Annie%20Use%20Your%20Telescope%3Aregular|font_style:400%20regular%3A400%3Anormal” css=”.vc_custom_1613699751150{padding-top: 20px !important;padding-bottom: 32px !important;}”][vc_column_text]For someone like me, who is a voracious traveler, adventure seeker, and hardcore extrovert, the pandemic has been especially tough personally. I pride myself on being a caring, responsible part of my community and I take the safety of those around my seriously. So, I did what most of us have done: I stayed the fuck home and just worked on my online empire. I’m a recovering (ahem, still) workaholic and the last year has been many long hours toiling away at my many projects to stave off the existential dread. I work to travel, so when I couldn’t travel.. I just worked.

The pandemic also brought strict protocols for sessions, and for the first time in my career, I wasn’t seeing putting men through their paces in-person on a regular basis. I hadn’t realized how much of a necessary outlet that was for me because it was always present in my life. I felt like a tiger in a cage, pacing the bars, looking for my next meal. I channeled that into videos and online training, but it’s not the same as having your hands on another person’s flesh. I think that resuming normal in-person sessions is the one thing I’m looking forward to most.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]I’ve been extremely fortunate with my career, and I have to count my blessings in sex work on a daily basis. I had an existing, well-established brand and a successful video distribution already in place so the loss of in-person sessions didn’t cause as much of a struggle as it has for others. I did an intensive education series for sex workers last year to help build the skills and brands of others who were transitioning to online work and I’m proud of the impact that’s made. But.. I still have two ladies whose salaries rely on me, plus keeping the dungeon and studio (that supports 6 other ladies) afloat while we weather the storm, so it’s been a feat of endurance to keep everything going. So if it looks like it’s easy.. well, it’s not. Also.. cat food is expensive.

Not to mention.. all of you, who also needed an escape from your own pandemic struggles! I’ve tried to carefully craft immersive fantasies for my slaves and fans to lose themselves in, and I’m quite proud of what I’ve created. I’ve had great fun doing in-depth custom videos this year (did you know you can order one of your own?) and that’s been the highlight of each week. I also have some of the very best slaves imaginable who have made this last year much more tolerable, to help stave off the human disconnect.

Now.. with vaccine rollouts coming to the front, it appears the end is in sight. Just a little while longer! We can do this! In the meantime, I recommend indulging in a video fantasy or two and really letting yourself go in enjoyment.

Let the world melt away for a while and focus on serving me, exploring a new kink, satisfying a desire, and maybe.. learning something new about yourself too.[/vc_column_text][vc_single_image image=”8178″ img_size=”full” alignment=”right”][/vc_column][/vc_row]

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