classes & Coaching

unapologetic truth

teaching from the edge of experience

I’ve spent the last two decades at the intersection of dominance, storytelling, and survival. I’ve built an empire in the adult industry—not just to prove it could be done ethically, but to channel that success into something far greater. I believe in education as transformation, in consent as creative power, and in our ability to change the world through intimacy, integrity, and connection.

As a professional Dominatrix, award-winning media producer, nonprofit director, and sex worker mentor, I’ve taught thousands through workshops, one-on-one coaching, panels, and immersive experiences. I don’t just teach from theory: I teach from the battlefield. From years of navigating marginalization, breaking stigma, building spaces where others said none should exist, and surviving systems designed to silence people like me.

Whether I’m helping a couple rediscover desire with clearer communication, coaching a sex worker through burnout or business growth, or speaking to a room full of future therapists about power and identity—I bring my whole self. My background in psychology, identity studies, and sex work policy meets my lived knowledge of what it means to create safety, empowerment, and possibility from the ground up.

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Classes and Workshops

Dynamic, stigma-free education for those hungry to learn.

From kink skills to sex work business strategy to radical relationships, I teach powerful, immersive workshops online and in-person for events, conferences, and private groups.

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Private Coaching

1:1 support tailored to your journey.

Whether you’re a couple exploring power exchange, an individual seeking more insight into themselves, or a sex worker leveling up your career, my coaching combines practical insight with fierce empathy and real-world tools.

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Public Speaking & Keynotes

Authentic storytelling meets informed disruption.

I offer keynotes, panels, and consulting that challenge stigma, ignite change, and amplify the voices of those too often left unheard: through truth, humor, and lived expertise.

Classes & Workshops

Radically Honest. Fiercely Educational. Unapologetically Empowering.

I don’t just teach, I make concepts accessible and approachable.

I create spaces where people feel safe enough to ask real questions, examine their assumptions, and step into new versions of themselves. My workshops are known for blending evidence-based tools with lived wisdom, delivered with clarity, candor, and just enough bite to keep it interesting.

Whether I’m teaching kink to beginners, guiding a room of professionals through advanced FemDom techniques, or helping a room full of sex workers explore sustainable business practices, my classes are built around one core principle: your liberation begins with understanding.

A little taste of what i teach

Popular Topics

I am available to teach in-person and virtually for groups and organizations that align with my ethics.

I have an extensive curriculum of information available for classes ranging from business and entrepreneurship to psychology to practical skills. This list is only an example of classes you can book me to teach. 

Kink, BDSm, and relationships

  • The Psychology of Restraint – Why we crave it, how it soothes, and what it teaches us
  • Chastity & Denial – Exploring long-term power exchange and the eroticism of control
  • Breathplay Basics – Risk-aware frameworks and the emotional mechanics of control
  • The Art of Tease & Denial – Neuropsychology meets seduction
  • Fem4Fem Play & Flirtation – Navigating desire and dominance between femmes
  • Emotional Safety in Edge Play – Trust-building and aftercare as sacred responsibility
  • Decolonizing Kink – Unpacking inherited systems, owning your desires, and more

advocacy and ethics

  • Age Verification & Online Censorship – What every creator needs to know now
  • FOSTA-SESTA and the Myth of Rescue – Understanding the harm and organizing response
  • Survivor-Led Advocacy in Alt Spaces – Creating safety beyond saviorism
  • Peer Support & Harm Reduction Models – A blueprint for community-based care
  • The Whorearchy is the Patriarchy – Power, respectability politics, and the myth of the “right kind” of sex worker
  • Why Decriminalization Matters – A policy, public health, and human rights lens
  • When the Law Isn’t On Our Side – How sex workers navigate criminalization, stigma, and survival

sXW & content creation

  • The Business of Content Creation – Automation, branding, and scale without burnout
  • Recession-Proof Your Hustle – Protecting your income when everything else is unstable
  • Online Sex Work Ethics – Boundaries, value, and integrity in online exchange
  • Customs, Clips & Creativity – Building a content empire that’s actually yours
  • Your Brand is Not Your Worth – Navigating visibility, parasociality, and boundaries
  • Teaching Without Trauma – Leading educational content as a sex worker with care
  • Content Strategy for Survival – Working with disabilities, burnout, or chronic instability

Safety and mental health

  • Performing vs. Living Gender – Expression, authenticity, and when the world misreads you
  • Joy as Resistance – Building queer spaces centered in play, power, and possibility
  • Colorism, Fetishization & Kink – Exploring the complicated intersections of race, desire, and systemic bias 
  • From Policy to Practice: Training Staff for Inclusive Environments – Equip bartenders, security, and event hosts with trauma-informed tools for de-escalation, gender-affirming interactions, and bystander intervention.
  • Neurodivergent Navigation in Kink & Play Understanding sensory needs, processing styles, and building scenes with clarity, care, and customization.

Private Coaching for Sex Workers

Online and In-Person Coaching and Consults

Honest, practical support from someone who’s lived it.


For content creators, pro-Dommes, and adult industry professionals ready to level up their business, protect their energy, or realign with their purpose.

Common Coaching Topics:

  • Accountability checks and neurospicy-friendly techniques
  • Pricing, positioning, and platform diversification
  • Time management, burnout prevention, and scaling up
  • Boundaries, parasocial dynamics, and emotional labor
  • Branding, fanclub structure, and creative vision
  • Marketing strategy (social, email, niche platforms)
  • Fanclub content planning and retention
  • Navigating online censorship and deplatforming
  • Financial planning, taxes, and long-term strategy
  • Cameras, lighting, and filming techniques
  • Hiring help: assistants, editors, or collaborators

Sex Work Coaching Prices

Relationship & Kink Coaching

I try to keep my SWer coaching and service prices as low as possible because I understand the challenges we face. 

That said, my coaching is best utilized by those who are not in the survival stage of their work. My knowledge is not suited for making money quickly or under duress. 

I also provide free or low cost coaching for victims of trafficking who wish to remain in the adult industry. Email me for more information.

Initial SW Consultation

Online or in-person assessment

$ 200 for 90 mins

This is an online consultation. If you wish to do this in-person, please email me,

online coaching options

Brand Audit

You provide me with all your links across all platforms, and I will do a deep dive analysis of your brand, your offerings, marketing, and more.

$300

Subsequent coaching

These are done per hour, and the price reflects the nature of the coaching needed. Virtual and in-person options are available.

$200+

Check-in calls

Half hour check-in calls done via phone or zoom. These are often used to keep you accountable to the things you need to do with your business. 

$150

Looking for my SW Masterclasses?

I have an entire online course website with multi-part workshops in everything from digital content management to fanclubs and more. These courses are inside the Wicked Alliance, a battle alliance for spicy content creators and online sex workers.

There are several free classes so you can see if my teaching style is right for you.

Personal Coaching for Individuals & more

Relationship & Kink Coaching

Navigate intimacy, desire, power, and communication with clarity and confidence.

Tailored support for individuals, couples, or polycules seeking to deepen trust, negotiate dynamics, or explore safely and authentically.

Common coaching topics:

  • Developing consent frameworks that actually work
  • Building D/s dynamics with emotional intelligence
  • Kink discovery by topic, play negotiation, and aftercare
  • Navigating jealousy, insecurity, or mismatched libido
  • Power exchange and relationship repair
  • Gender-affirming or queerness-centered dynamics
  • Supporting neurodivergent partners or systems

Coaching Prices

Relationship & Kink Coaching

Due to the nature of my schedule, I can only take a limited number of coaching clients at a time.

In-person and virtual options are available.

You may email me to inquire about scheduling an initial consultation.

Initial Consultation

To assess your needs and plot a course for your coaching journey

$ 500 for 90 mins

This is not a session, this is a consult only.

private coaching prices

Intitial consultation

Consults are 90 minutes in length and they are used to establish where you are and where you want to go.

$500

Subsequent coaching

These are done per hour, and the price reflects the nature of the coaching needed. Virtual and in-person options are available.

$300+

Check-in calls

Half hour check-in calls done via phone or zoom.

$150

PUBLIC SPEAKING & KEYNOTES

Honest. Unapologetic. Unforgettable.

From fetish conventions to university lecture halls, I speak with equal parts depth and precision on subjects that others are afraid to touch. My voice isn’t just informed by lived experience — it’s shaped by decades of leadership, community-building, and unflinching confrontation of taboo. Whether I’m on a panel, headlining a keynote, or teaching a workshop, I bring the same intention: to make people feel seen, challenged, and transformed.

I speak on topics spanning sex work, kink, gender, neurodivergence, media, entrepreneurship, and social equity, always with a grounding in intersectionality, systems thinking, and real-world application. I’ve educated audiences ranging from tech CEOs to trauma-informed therapists, sex educators to the greater public.

My presentations can be tailored to suit your audience’s needs, whether it’s a festival, nonprofit training, brand campaign, or academic event.

guest lectures and academic speaking

I am available for university guest lectures in gender studies, sociology, psychology, digital media, and cultural studies.

Past engagements have included:

  • OSU Department of Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies
  • Panels on pornography, sex trafficking, decriminalization, and media ethics
  • Collaborations with LGBTQIA+ student orgs and peer educator programs

panel topics

These can be formatted as lectures, interactive sessions, or facilitated discussions:

  • Sex Work, Porn, Media & Representation
  • Identity, Intersectionality & Liberation
  • Consent, Power & Kink Culture
  • Community Building, Advocacy & Safer Spaces
  • Digital Culture, Platforms & Creator Autonomy

credentials and experience

  • 20+ years as a professional Dominatrix & fetish media producer
  • Founder & Executive Director of the Autonomy Project (501c3)
  • Owner of Wicked Eden, a queer-centered community and education space
  • Creator of Wicked Alliance and Wicked Retreats for sex worker support
  • International speaker, educator, and consultant on kink, sex work, and power
  • Subject of the documentary A Wicked Eden
  • Lived experience as a trafficking survivor who built an empire from the ashes
  • Cherokee Nation citizen; multiracial and queer lived experience

Signature Keynotes

“Sex Work as Sacred Labor”
A reframing of erotic labor as a site of healing, resistance, and transformation — with lived truths that challenge mainstream narratives.

“Building Power at the Margins”
A roadmap to authentic leadership in communities that have been pushed aside — drawn from decades of sex work, community organizing, and creative entrepreneurship.

“Stigma is a System: How Shame Upholds Oppression”
A piercing look at how stigma operates — and how we dismantle it through storytelling, solidarity, and systemic change.

“Reclaiming Dangerous Womanhood”
An exploration of femme power, fear-based control, and what it means to thrive unapologetically at the intersection of sexual agency and societal expectation.

“The Myth of the ‘Good’ Survivor”
How narratives around victimhood, redemption, and respectability harm survivors—and how we make room for complex, unpalatable, and powerful truths.

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I don’t want your blind obedience—I want your reverence, your curiosity, your becoming.

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